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a choice between options
you met someone..he became your lover..soon enough you & him dream of having a family in future..your future spouse..so you work hard to achieve the goal..
then out of no where, a stranger appears in your life..he's intent on getting married..and guess what, his family likes you..choose you..
so you heard about this stranger..a nice person, obey to religion, a family-man type, has a good job, owned a nice car & house..sounds like a perfect candidate..
so..what's on your mind? this is called dilemma..